House-Wife Sexuality

Real Masculinity inspires a woman's worship – without using force, violence and ignoring emotional needs.


Too many masters = too many responsibilities (corrected)

(This is all based on men being masculine and women being feminine)
Men are task focused

Women are people focused
Men can do a task whether or not they like the person who tells them to do it. For a long time. 
Women doing tasks is completely dependent on her liking the person who gives it.  

Women only perform from the person they are in love and obsessed with. 

Men need to know
Women can only function in the now. 

They can only achieve short-term goals and rewards by themselves. 
She can barely manage maximum 3 tasks at a time.
Optimally she can go above and beyond with 1 correctly prioritized task.
Women prioritize emotionally. 
Men prioritize logically if he is masculine.
Women can ONLY reach far away goals and rewards WITH a man helping her to focus past rejection, problems etc. 
When a woman is burdened, her biggest incentive is fight or flight – but most often flight because of her fears and insecurities. She will always flee to where she is understood. (Feminine)

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In the strength of my weakness.

My husband is out working. I’m waiting patiently in the dark while our 3 yr old falls asleep in our bed. I’ve missed Mr. Darling very much.

This moment in the dark, headlights of parking cars splash across my face through the balcony window. I realized how much I NEED my husband. How much I appreciate that he doesn’t force me to work. Or do the things that would overload my wires. And how much he desires my peace, security, and sanity IN him being my only focus.

I would die if I had to be what every woman out there is doing. I belong here. I cannot supply resources for myself, I cannot protect myself, I CANNOT BE A MAN. LET ALONE TRYING TO DO THAT ON A DAY TO DAY BASIS. Woman were not built for such endurance without masculine overview.

I realized how much I need him to be a man. I never knew how much I needed a man until I stopped being and competing as/with a man.

To deny what seems to others as weakness is to deny love for myself.

If I ever had to do my husbands role, I would be greeted with, depression, anxiety, low capacity, lack of motivation to stay thin, mood swings, aggression.

I love being a woman. I love submission! I finally feel like I belong! Like I’m in the right place on the right track. Here I AM strong.

My love for him has become so deep I never knew that it was possible to feel like this or desire a person so much.

I want to be everything that a woman ought to be. I still have yet to understand what it means to be a woman and the power of creating my man into a god by setting him free.

I’m grateful that I made a list and that honesty, integrity, and commitment were important. Because with that you can dream big and achieve it because you can be trusted.

I’m grateful for his ambition, BIG THINKING. I’m grateful that he has dreams and desires of being financially free.

Someone knew what they were doing leading me to him. My husband is my light and my life.


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Women made simple

In a woman’s mind, a man is either WORTHLESS or WORTHWHILE! And he cannot be both at the same time.

“Unworthy of me” or “worthy of me”

1) Bum on the street, someone who’s got NOTHING!

That is how a woman looks at a man who she feels is less worthy of her

2) Someone who has EVERYTHING she wants (lamPs)

That is how a woman looks at a man who feels she is less worthy of him.

In a woman’s mind, a man either has NOTHING or EVERYTHING of what she wants.

she wants a man that she CANNOT control, other than in the bedroom.
Someone she needs to use her sexual and seductive powers on in order control.

When a woman has sex with a beta, she feels dirty.

If a beta comes even near her, she feels dirty, creeped out, disgusted. “how can he even think that i would be interested in talking with him. i wish he would stop asking me questions. i wish he would stop being interested in me. I wish he would just go away, in case there is another man who is on the outlook for me who is worthy of me.”

women always look somewhere else, when a beta is talking to them.

Women are heavily focused on every word, every nuance of everything an alpha is saying she breathes him in. Total and utter focus! if they don’t pay attention to him, he won’t find her interesting, and will move on to someone else – “alphas are very rare these days, you know”!

Women’s self esteem is totally and utterly based upon their ability to have sex with an alpha.

women make decisions based on what is happening now, the details of the current situation.
they want to have sex with a man when he has accomplished something great and special with other people, that other people look up to him for. then he is suddenly worthy of her attention and sexuality. He can offer her EVERYTHING because of his apparent power.

but the moment he allows her an ounce of control in his life, the attraction quickly fades into nothingness. He can offer her NOTHING!

in this way, no matter what he does for her, no matter what he invests of time and resources in her, it will never be enough, because as soon as she gains any form of control over him outside the bedroom, she has no use for his NOTHING any more.

A woman feels a man that she can control, will achieve NOTHING. And she is right. (But mostly because of her, unless he consciously makes her a lesser priority in his life.)

she therefore NEEEEEEEDS the man to not allow her to control him outside the bedroom.

Since a woman feels her man can do NOTHING, this is what she actually believes! He is out working 10-12 hours a day (in her mind, he has done nothing!). He has been out with the trash (in her mind, he has done nothing). He has made sure to do all the chores that she asked him to do (he has done nothing). He did the dishes with the kids (he has done nothing). And he brought home flowers and wants to go on a date with me (he has done nothing, but i love him as a friend. “He’s is my best friend.” But having sex with him, the guy who has done NOTHING- NO WAY!)

what she doesn’t know is that the moment she relinquishes ALL control, both in the bedroom and outside the bedroom, then the man can begin to take control of his situation, of her, and make things happen.

a man can take control of his life the same way – simply by relinquishing
HER control – and never allowing her to control him ever again. he can be nice of course, when she performs her duties – but the moment she begins to exercise any control over him again or refrains to perform her rightful duties, he needs to distance himself and his time and resources from the bottomless pit of her expectations!

When a man is in control of his life!?!?! WOW!!

that is the moment she feels she can get EVERYTHING out of this man! she begins to become excited about him, and is more apt to contact him for romantic purposes, more apt to say i love you (and mean it), more apt to initiate physical contact and kisses, and maybe even seduce him a bit in the bedroom??

when she does something outside the bedroom, that is to be EXPECTED.
A man has expectations on himself to perform for his woman and children. those expectations are to provide and protect when in need (when they are hungry, thirsty, in need of clothing or shelter, a threat appears, etc)

a man that doesn’t do those things is heavily looked down upon in society! he is an abuser !! “you are giving her the base necessities of life. it’s expected”.

a woman that doesn’t do her rightly duties of “making sandwiches”, keeping a home nice and tidy for her master, takes care of the children and make sure they are behaving well – these are all things that should not be rewarded other than giving her the base necessities of life.

but when a woman performs extraordinarily in bed, she should receive some form of additional reward for her behavior that is pleasing to her husband.

He will begin to go the extra mile towards his dreams – because he is beginning to believe he can actually achieve them! When ALL is well at home, EVERYTHING WORKS!

when a man resists her control, she immediately begins to become attracted to him. this is why women subconsciously stir up fights with their men for no apparent reason, to see if he will resist her and not allow himself to be controlled.

a woman will only have sex with her man if he says no to her. now she can prove herself worthy of him.

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When a woman makes love to an alpha she was specifically warned about not having sex with – she’s thinking : “how can this be so wrong, when it feeeels sooooo right!!??”

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When a woman feels dirty for having sex with a beta, it’s not because she’s thinking “i feel bad towards this beta for thinking about other men” –
nope it’s more like a “I can’t believe I’m having sex with this person. it feels so wrong. he is less worthy of me. he hasn’t done NOTHING to be worthy of me. i’m worth so much more than this!”

it’s like making love to a bum

she feels like she is a princess, worthy of a prince, and here she is, making love to a dirty man, almost feels like rape


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WHY MEN ARE SO CONFUSED AS TO WHAT WOMEN WANT

Came across this famous N’sync song for the first time since hearing about and accepting the red pill:

I had never realized that this was complete FALSE advertising for what women want!

If my definition of alpha is correct – “thousands/millions of women want to be/sleep with him” and “she’s lucky if she gets to be/sleepwith me” – then these guys are completely ALPHAS singing a BETA song!!!!

All over the world they sing this song, and women are screaming and orgasming right in front of them, yet if other average Joe’s display any of these feelings – women friendzone them and LJBF’s (“let’s just be friends”) them!

Culture and media are not helping men figure out how women want to be loved!!

On the other hand, women know intimately what they want, but men don’t know how to create this in their women, except men like N’sync:

Anyone who can think of other CLEARLY ALPHA songs, and/or CLEARLY BETA songs?? Please share!
Mr.D


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If you already are a high status guy. And want to marry?

A “prince” NEEDS to marry a beautiful pauper. She will FOREVER SEE HIM AS ALPHA. And if she is rebellious she won’t be for Long or as bad because SHE KNOWS SHE CAN BE REPLACED.

Women of equal status have options.

A women who doesn’t have money can’t create her own status or freedom.

Women should never work. Just develop her submission. Give up her freedom in order to gain it.


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To love or not to love

A woman can only feel love if she desires the person she makes love to. A man is only desirable if all women want to be with him and all men want to be like him. But, for the women, that love can only come if she sees him as or makes him more valuable than her. She can do this by sacrificing her own pleasures comforts for his. The only things we treasure in life are not the free things but things we worked/sacrificed for.

Happy man=happy wife= happy life.

When the woman places the mans value above her own; this is the only way to gain her attraction to him.

Women do not make love to friends. Friends are equal. A man who is a lover; the women thinks his needs thoughts and work is more important than her. The man has higher value because she serves him. We are in love and owned by those we serve.

Betas are and gives things for free.

Alphas do not give for free. They set conditions. There is a job description. Sorry ladies nothing in this world is free. There is always a price.

If women didn’t make love to betas this riddle would be easy to see.

A woman’s peace/sanity is the reward for her submission. Secondary rewards are food, clothing, shelter. Third rewards are luxuries.

A women’s un-submissions is paid back to her through insanity/torment and fear. This governs her life. Leaving her unwanted,un-provided, un-protected and alone/rejected/cast out. The only constant thing in her life is her addictions and fear. FEARFUL OF RISK. Her “safety” is dependent on things REMAINING THE SAME. CHANGE AND RISK IS UNSAFE TO HER.

Therefore her master is fear, she serves it and does what it tells her to!

A women’s heart is where her submission is. She is owned by the person or thing she takes orders from.

If sex and relationships is not easy or simple to you. You are either a feminist or a beta.

Simplicity is complicated and overlooked to those who are un-submissive to truth.

By small and simple things shall great things come to pass.


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The curse of the alpha women

The curse the alpha women.

photoInstead of the man building and gathering resources needed to have a debt free family, he spends all of them to make her happy. Buying flowers, gifts, excessive material goods (clothes) and play things. This is how she throws herself into poverty and debt. He’s such a nice husband and serves her with all his  heart. He’s trying so hard to please her but, the more he does, the more she suffocates. You can’t do much on little oxygen. The kids and cleaning become too much. Then there are the financial problems that they fight about because she sucks everything from him in her desperate attempt to fill the emptiness inside. No matter how much he does stuff for her, the more unhappy she is and the more they argue. Then she feels she needs to work because she is drowning and suffocating at home from all the pressure she feels from the beta husband, kids and lack of money. She ends up not wanting more kids or aborts them. She refuses to have sex with him. All this is an attempt to “save” her marriage (herself).  Either they live this way emotionally divorced. Or she gets a real divorce. She tells all her friends that marriage is a sham.

Happy wife happy life leaves her to wonder how to make him a man !! Why does he disgust her? What am I suppose to do? She doesn’t know how to get PEACE!!

Her real purpose is to serve HIM!  She earns all the things she could ever desire by submitting to his desires, building his goals and dreams. Happy husband, happy wife. This is WHERE she finds PEACE. NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.

The husband is the head of the wife, Period! – Pat Robertson

3 3/4 YEARS OF MY MARRIED LIFE I WAS EXPERIENCING THIS suffocation feeling, emptiness and restlessness. I maintained control compared to what I experienced growing up and the other women around me. Because I’m SUPER ANTI-DIVORCE and ANTI-CONTENTION.  We never fought or argued but, i felt i was constantly disappointed in him. Every time he said that he was going to DO IT (create business momentum) I never believed him. I was starting to lose faith in his capacity to provide, protect and lead our family. I was turned off to wanting sex or rocking it in the bedroom. I never worked out of the home or put my kids in barnehage. But, it’s was soooooo tempting! Not anymore!!!! I would rather die than do that!

I was the one controlling him! And the more I controlled his time the less he spent on our business. My un-submission was me wanting my husband to spend time with me all the time because i thought that that was the problem in my parents 2 divorces. It was also me buying the things that were practical and expensive for my sanity, to keep the house clean and in order. Because i had so little capacity, i was striving so hard  to do less and clean less in the home.

These last 2 months EVERYTHING HAS CHANGED; Once we started applying our selves in our proper roles. This is the only time that we have disagreed or have had heated discussions; as we got out of our comfort zone and adopted new behaviors. Letting go of what doesn’t work and grabbing hold of what lasts forever.

IT GOT WORSE BEFORE IT GOT BETTER.

NOW IT  CONTINUES TO FOLLOW THE EXPONENTIAL GROWTH CURVE. I have greater capacity and emotional stability. He now has control over himself for the business and our financial freedom.

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A confident husband is a happy husband. A confident husband is a man with a wife who desires him sexually and obsesses about having sex with him every day.

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