House-Wife Sexuality

Real Masculinity inspires a woman's worship – without using force, violence and ignoring emotional needs.


Too many masters = too many responsibilities (corrected)

(This is all based on men being masculine and women being feminine)
Men are task focused

Women are people focused
Men can do a task whether or not they like the person who tells them to do it. For a long time. 
Women doing tasks is completely dependent on her liking the person who gives it.  

Women only perform from the person they are in love and obsessed with. 

Men need to know
Women can only function in the now. 

They can only achieve short-term goals and rewards by themselves. 
She can barely manage maximum 3 tasks at a time.
Optimally she can go above and beyond with 1 correctly prioritized task.
Women prioritize emotionally. 
Men prioritize logically if he is masculine.
Women can ONLY reach far away goals and rewards WITH a man helping her to focus past rejection, problems etc. 
When a woman is burdened, her biggest incentive is fight or flight – but most often flight because of her fears and insecurities. She will always flee to where she is understood. (Feminine)

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Transition

I’m in for a lot of temporary pain. I know this because…. Anyway, the women that we bring in won’t be as burdened as me. And burden determines sexual excitement. 

I won’t be able to be as sexually excited as they are for some time. I don’t know how long. But, once I have the consistent feminine needs in place, help around the house and my husbands increased and needed absence….things will begin to equalize. I’ll be free, emotionally.

But, the transition I’m dreading cause I know I’ll suffer. I’ll have two more “kids” because of their ignorance. They don’t know what we know. They don’t understand kids and safety. All these things that I’ll be weighted down will, ON TOP of my broken sexuality. 

Victory lays in the vicinity of pain. I know….At least I have husband to help me through.

I’m scared of me. My emotions. What I will feel. Jealousy……sexual rejection of not being able to have sexual excitement yet and they will, these ARE THE WORST FEELINGS. 

To not feel good enough, like damaged goods. I’m scared of the pain. I’m scared, I’m scared, I’m scared. I don’t want to be a monster. I don’t want negative emotions. I don’t want my negative emotions CONTROLLING ME ANYMORE!!

This is THE ONLY WAY! 


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Short and sweet

Today during sex I was transported back to my teenager times. Before any sexual encounters.

I felt the same way I felt then. Tenaciously Desirous. I had re awakened or touched upon a level today that I have only dreamed of feeling. I think I have felt close to this but not as emotionally impacting and grounding.

I’m healing. One step at a time. I’m so happy.

Sex creates a shield of safety. It envelops a person with invincibility. That the problems of the day are no longer negatives. Things that once were seen as road blocks are big stepping stones to something bigger. You just have to take the higher step and rise above it.

I feel that I’m close to being surrounded by this un penetrable shield. Soon, ( not sure how long) I will feel like I’m being carried instead of feeling weighed down. Flying. I’m so happy.


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Dear viewers

I have recently been going through all my posts and putting them into categories.

You will probably be quite intrigued by the sexuality category because that is where all our posts of our 165 days of daily sex are.

This is where we learned and came to the beginning of our conclusion that default “yes” submission and giving my power over to my husband was the answer to EVERYTHING! We have tried everything else plus daily sex and everything else failed except for this! We have never had such dramatic results because if my default yes submission than from this weekend at a business conference. We learned so much this weekend!

THIS IS JUST THE BEGINNING

OUR DREAMS ARE COMING TRUE!!

I look forward to writing! After all my responsibilities to my husband have been done! He comes first! I love you Mr. Darling!

Enjoy a sample of the 165 days. It was randomly picked!


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“Default yes” submission. Light attracts light, virtue attracts virtue.

Women are irrational and illogical! Which is why it’s so important what goes in their head. Majority of women have watched too man horror movies and things that go wrong in the world. Which is very small percentage of what really goes on in the world. They lose site of the beautiful things and don’t DARE TAKING RISKS. Creating more fear in her than ever before. Making it harder for men.

I’am progressive “default yes” submissive. There are only two things submission or un-submission. If you are progressing towards something you basically ARE that thing because at some point you will reach it.

Women are so scared of “default yes” submission. Because they think that this is what they will get:

http://finallyhappywife.blogspot.no/2012/05/dont-try-this-at-home.html?m=1&zx=138d116881d44d83

WRONG! You attract what you focus on. So, if you want this then participate in it… that’s your thing. If you don’t want this then ask lots and lots of questions about the guy you want to be involved with. I’m impressed with this woman’s attitude. I love it! Her attitude is what I want in my head about everything in life on a general basis. She out does me in submission any day!

Mr. Darling wouldn’t do any of this because it’s not duplicatable (If everyone did this what would the world look like?). And you can’t create a happy family. This would produce chaos!!!!! Violence is not duplicatable ever! I know god wouldn’t do this to his wife. But, bravo for her to being so submissive with a positive attitude!

If you don’t want it then THINK before you open your legs or put yourself in a position where your natural submission tendencies will take over. Women who don’t understand their nature and programming get into ALOT of trouble. I know I did! Before, I got married to an AWESOME MAN!

Quotes:

Choose wisely! Become who you want to have around you. Your behavior attracts or repels people.

You want a fight you’ll get a fight. (Not from me so don’t waist your energy) You want peace you’ll get peace.

Light attracts light, virtue attracts virtue.

Life is like quicksand the more you fight the more your life is in danger.