It is not idolatry to worship your husband. Your man was born to eventually become a god. Your husband was born to be worshipped. If a man is not worshipped by his wife, who else will worship him? How else will she, as his wife, become a goddess, if her man is not first a god? A man rises to the occasion, when his special someone knows WHO he is!
You don’t get the water before you dig the well!
It is not God that exalts you; IT IS YOUR HUSBAND!
He created us for each other, NOT for him!
The only reason submission confuses women, is because they are trying to serve two masters.