A man doesn’t micro manage if he has a submissive wife. Micro managing only happens when his subordinate – or wife – or kids don’t do as he asks them to do.
A man doesn’t want to micro manage, because it hinders him from doing the other things in life that’s important to him. Micro managing is the only way to get people into submission, unless there are other options. Most often men don’t feel there are. That is changing
A man with options doesn’t micro manage – he just finds someone who will do the job.
A woman who does what her man says is submissive. When she doesn’t she is not submissive. Give and receive. Generally, if you fight the man against his wishes he’ll fight back buy being controlling. He really DOESN’T WANT TO. It’s exhausting to try to maintain order that way.
If your man is micro managing and you want him to stop. Remember the rule give a fight, receive a fight. Give your up your freedom and receive your freedom.
Flip the coin. Start calling him about everything and be sincere. Then he’ll start telling you to make the decisions yourself because he doesn’t want to be bothered thinking about that stuff. Remember a woman’s role is to be a follower of the husband and a leader to the children. A man’s role is to be a follower of truth and a leader to his family who delegates leadership to the woman. This is how we were emotionally, chemically, genetically created to receive fulfillment and happiness. And that’s the way it is.
Truth is only self evident when applied.
Results only come with consistency and time.