In a woman’s mind, a man is either WORTHLESS or WORTHWHILE! And he cannot be both at the same time.
“Unworthy of me” or “worthy of me”
1) Bum on the street, someone who’s got NOTHING!
That is how a woman looks at a man who she feels is less worthy of her
2) Someone who has EVERYTHING she wants (lamPs)
That is how a woman looks at a man who feels she is less worthy of him.
In a woman’s mind, a man either has NOTHING or EVERYTHING of what she wants.
she wants a man that she CANNOT control, other than in the bedroom.
Someone she needs to use her sexual and seductive powers on in order control.
When a woman has sex with a beta, she feels dirty.
If a beta comes even near her, she feels dirty, creeped out, disgusted. “how can he even think that i would be interested in talking with him. i wish he would stop asking me questions. i wish he would stop being interested in me. I wish he would just go away, in case there is another man who is on the outlook for me who is worthy of me.”
women always look somewhere else, when a beta is talking to them.
Women are heavily focused on every word, every nuance of everything an alpha is saying she breathes him in. Total and utter focus! if they don’t pay attention to him, he won’t find her interesting, and will move on to someone else – “alphas are very rare these days, you know”!
Women’s self esteem is totally and utterly based upon their ability to have sex with an alpha.
women make decisions based on what is happening now, the details of the current situation.
they want to have sex with a man when he has accomplished something great and special with other people, that other people look up to him for. then he is suddenly worthy of her attention and sexuality. He can offer her EVERYTHING because of his apparent power.
but the moment he allows her an ounce of control in his life, the attraction quickly fades into nothingness. He can offer her NOTHING!
in this way, no matter what he does for her, no matter what he invests of time and resources in her, it will never be enough, because as soon as she gains any form of control over him outside the bedroom, she has no use for his NOTHING any more.
A woman feels a man that she can control, will achieve NOTHING. And she is right. (But mostly because of her, unless he consciously makes her a lesser priority in his life.)
she therefore NEEEEEEEDS the man to not allow her to control him outside the bedroom.
Since a woman feels her man can do NOTHING, this is what she actually believes! He is out working 10-12 hours a day (in her mind, he has done nothing!). He has been out with the trash (in her mind, he has done nothing). He has made sure to do all the chores that she asked him to do (he has done nothing). He did the dishes with the kids (he has done nothing). And he brought home flowers and wants to go on a date with me (he has done nothing, but i love him as a friend. “He’s is my best friend.” But having sex with him, the guy who has done NOTHING- NO WAY!)
what she doesn’t know is that the moment she relinquishes ALL control, both in the bedroom and outside the bedroom, then the man can begin to take control of his situation, of her, and make things happen.
a man can take control of his life the same way – simply by relinquishing
HER control – and never allowing her to control him ever again. he can be nice of course, when she performs her duties – but the moment she begins to exercise any control over him again or refrains to perform her rightful duties, he needs to distance himself and his time and resources from the bottomless pit of her expectations!
When a man is in control of his life!?!?! WOW!!
that is the moment she feels she can get EVERYTHING out of this man! she begins to become excited about him, and is more apt to contact him for romantic purposes, more apt to say i love you (and mean it), more apt to initiate physical contact and kisses, and maybe even seduce him a bit in the bedroom??
when she does something outside the bedroom, that is to be EXPECTED.
A man has expectations on himself to perform for his woman and children. those expectations are to provide and protect when in need (when they are hungry, thirsty, in need of clothing or shelter, a threat appears, etc)
a man that doesn’t do those things is heavily looked down upon in society! he is an abuser !! “you are giving her the base necessities of life. it’s expected”.
a woman that doesn’t do her rightly duties of “making sandwiches”, keeping a home nice and tidy for her master, takes care of the children and make sure they are behaving well – these are all things that should not be rewarded other than giving her the base necessities of life.
but when a woman performs extraordinarily in bed, she should receive some form of additional reward for her behavior that is pleasing to her husband.
He will begin to go the extra mile towards his dreams – because he is beginning to believe he can actually achieve them! When ALL is well at home, EVERYTHING WORKS!
when a man resists her control, she immediately begins to become attracted to him. this is why women subconsciously stir up fights with their men for no apparent reason, to see if he will resist her and not allow himself to be controlled.
a woman will only have sex with her man if he says no to her. now she can prove herself worthy of him.
When a woman makes love to an alpha she was specifically warned about not having sex with – she’s thinking : “how can this be so wrong, when it feeeels sooooo right!!??”
When a woman feels dirty for having sex with a beta, it’s not because she’s thinking “i feel bad towards this beta for thinking about other men” –
nope it’s more like a “I can’t believe I’m having sex with this person. it feels so wrong. he is less worthy of me. he hasn’t done NOTHING to be worthy of me. i’m worth so much more than this!”
it’s like making love to a bum
she feels like she is a princess, worthy of a prince, and here she is, making love to a dirty man, almost feels like rape