“It is so much nicer to follow a leader than it is to lead a reluctant follower”
Quote from an in-the-past feminist, now recently submissive wife.
In most marriages, wives nag their men; but men know deep down that this isn’t right. Men are not designed to take orders from their women. And they will therefore do whatever asked of them reluctantly or not do what she says at all. UNHAPPY WOMAN.
And if the husband does do everything she says (if that’s possible), she will still feel unloved, unhappy, depressed and feel like he is not doing enough to please her. With her as the leader, she will always have a constant “something is missing” feeling. UNHAPPY WOMAN.
What if the man told the woman what to do? Would she be happier?
Firstly, there is no such thing as a feminist reluctant follower. That could be called abuse, even in Afghanistan. UNHAPPY WOMAN.
Secondly, feminists value their independence and freedom. And doing what she is told to do when she does not want to, would clearly be a problem for her. UNHAPPY WOMAN.
In the end – you can’t lead a feminist.
You can try, but after the loooooong journey of fights and turmoil – you will both find yourself in the exact same position you started. UNHAPPY WOMAN.
You cannot remain a feminist and find TRUE PEACE and HAPPINESS in the long term.
A woman will only be truly happy when she is determined to submit fully to her husband in everything and surrender her agency to him. She will only find true happiness when she voluntarily makes him her MASTER!
A man with such a woman is a LEADER! And he knows it. And he knows the origin of that leadership. It gives him confidence, that a woman of her caliber would follow his lead. It strengthens his self image, and “people who feel good about themselves produce good results” (one minute manager). HAPPY WOMAN!
He begins to build his vision, because he is in love. And the woman who loves and serves him, deserves the best. HAPPY WOMAN!
He therefore treats her with utmost respect. He acknowledges her feelings. He strives to make her feel comfortable. He works hard to provide and protect her. He keeps himself fit and energized by working out because now there is motivation!
This motivation ripples out to his attitude, his work, his cooperation with people, his capacity to excel! If he can lead his woman, why would he not be able to lead others? And thus he gains POWER, HIGH STATUS and ATTRACTIVENESS!
The exact things that a woman wants in her man. Interesting….
Can you see how a woman would appreciate his efforts more when she submits? Creating a high status man that she can belong to? What a blessing!
A submissive woman is a HAPPY WOMAN!! And always will be!