A man always gets what he wants because of his rational and logical mind, as long as he is committed to growth and change. His capacity to do depends upon his desire for the reward.
A woman always gets what she wants because of her feminine beauty and submission to a man. Her capacity depends upon the dominance of her man, because of her being irrational and illogical.
Her sense of importance is derived from having the attention/or being the possession of a high status man of her choice. I believe her motivation comes from her desire to impress her master – SO that he will want to have sex with her – therefore orders from him become easier to execute, and she uses sex transmutation to her own benefit – and she feels good about herself as he validates her performance, gives her amazing sex, and other things she has been wanting for a long time! She ends up having an enormous capacity and focus in doing his will