Previously we talked about what submission ACTUALLY means here. I will add a little more. When a woman becomes the main focus of the man it turns her off….fact! Why? Because if she’s the main focus she doesn’t have peace or confidence in the man’s capacity to provide and protect. What on earth can she do better than the man in getting EVERYTHING SHE WANTS while; still maintaining emotional stability, consistency, focus, ENERGY AND DRIVE, etc. Whether woman like it or not THEY NEED SOMEONE TELLING HER WHAT TO DO AND TELLING HER TO KEEP CONTROL. Or desire to stay in control. It’s just who will be that person. Also she is one person and limited to time. So, it is better for her to spend her time where she will get the most fulfillment according to her design. The only way SHE WILL feel this is by doing it and STICKING TO IT.
Through personal experience if my husband doesn’t order me around i feel incomplete, restless and tense. As soon as he does i end up taking a huge breath and let it out as the tension lets go of my body. Things are back to normal I FEEL IN CONTROL I feel PEACE.
The man is the captain of the woman’s soul or in other words. The captain of her emotional stability and peace. If he is focused on providing, protecting, and leading.
This gives her a KNOWING THAT SHE WILL GET WHAT SHE WANTS.
So, what happens if she doesn’t submit? Dalrock has a post called GOOD STUFF. I will find other posts that encourage what is called NEXTING!
IF YOU ARE MARRIED YOU WILL HAVE TO FIND OTHER THINGS THAN WOMEN TO NEXT HER WITH if you are to be faithful.
If you are a polygamist. No problem! Easy!
IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED DON’T DATE EXCLUSIVELY UNTIL YOU KNOW THAT SHE IS THE ONE.