A lot has happened!
We are changing our focus. Our hypothesis at the moment is that while Kegels are EXtremely important; number 1 priority is the ability to turn myself on by thought before sex. I’m reading a book called THE POWER OF HABIT. It deeply exposes how the brain works. Yeah it’s super to be turned on during sex but, doesn’t take much imaginative pleasure. We are also limited to the level of pleasure we feel based on our thinking.
Very busy week/ weekend! My birthday! Work maintenance on our apartment. Our maid had time off! Schedule issues, waxing! Husband working extra time! Kids! Blah!!!
Day 109, we had 5 min sex.
Day 110, We had sex in the morning because we both got Brazilian waxes. I always love mornings because of being able to feel the subtle energies. From me and Mr. Darling. It’s the first sensory input of the day. Easier if it’s a routine that can be done everyday.