Mr. Darling and I are putting together our end goal picture. We need to know what our sex life looks like so we know which path to take, what is right and what is wrong. Everything we want is outside our comfort zone. Outside your comfort zone you will have feelings of insecurity until you’ve been there long enough to know the ropes. Once you’ve established a sense of right and wrong; security is established. But, you don’t know what is right if you don’t know what is wrong; vise versa.