My husband and I had to really think of solutions of how to get our sex in. Holy Moly! He needed to go out exercise, build his business and go to his regular work which was night shift. I do not like to get up early at the moment with breastfeeding and all. Our only opportunity was around noon time while both kids slept. He had to go exercise while I put the kids to nap. 10 O’clock he left. Between this time and 2:30 we had to have sex. The gym usually takes about an hour. And usually it’s not difficult to get the 2 year to take a nap. 10:45 I put the 1 year old to nap. Then 11 o;clock rolls around, I got the 2 year to relax in our bed while i breastfed him. He occasionally falls asleep with the boob during this time. Or he watches some children things on you tube. 11:30 he is still awake. My husband can’t come in the house or the 2 year will get very excited. Also at this time the 1 year old was startled by sounds, wakes up and cries. ah!! I had to just leave her she’ll go back to sleep. Took her about 10-15 mins. She usually sleeps 3 hours or less. 2 year old still awake at 12. husband comes in from outside has to wait in the corridors of the apartment building. What to do. We were so close to wondering if it was going to happen. we held out 12:15-ish, 2 year asleep or wait until 11:30 @ night.
It was really pleasurable sex. This time very distinct electric sparks. Especially on the bottom part of the vagina. The Perineum tissue. And when the penis almost touches the cervix. Everything was charged. ooooo it was getting really hot and wet! It was definitely getting somewhere. Classically or cliche-ically the 1 year old woke up right when it was starting to lead somewhere.
The short thrusts and the quick breathing really works though. Sex is starting to be a expected thing. Transition phase will be over by the 3rd month. I feel excitement in my heart. And it just keeps getting more positive. And making my husband a champion bread winner.