The things i learned from this time…. with us.. Breathing connection in the beginning before penetration. partners should be at the same level of peace and tranquility before beginning. gradual penetration after mutual connection. very small thrusts in the first 30 mins. possibly allowing the penis to just sit in the vagina while kissing and cuddling. this we will experiment tonight. Resisting the urge to thrust and then when finally able to thrust s oh baby oh baby. I felt sparks again in the lips near the hole while we did small thrusts.